Yesterday David & Lori asked me a question. Who do you socialize with here as an expat? I just laughed. My answer was: we socialize with our friends from the US. Being an expat herself Lori immediately understood. I have a calendar just for visitors. Since I took the photos that make up this collage of our visitors I have added at least one more for the big empty space of the largest square. I remember when our friends Al Horrigan and Carol Howes bought a second home around the corner to house the steady stream of visitors they always had. We won't be doing that because Carol was cooking for all her guests (I don't) and she was acting as a tour guide (here you get a book about Sevilla and some recommendations for the "don't miss" sights.) Oh and we make dinner reservations. So we only offer a bed and bath basically. Keeps me (the introvert in the family) sane while I get the fun of seeing friends and my extrovert husband gets all the company he craves. We see folks from the expat community here too. The culture in Spain is focused on family and our original immersion teachers warned us not to expect to be invited into someone's home or to invite them to yours. If you become friendly with someone who is truly local (as opposed to a transplanted Spaniard) you will see them at coffee or for a drink and tapa. (BTW that is something we see all the time; groups of friends out for drinks with a few bites of food along the way.) But as you can see from the calendar - we don't lack company
Some of the days are cut off - and we still haven't gotten confirms from Angela & Lee or John & Stephanie (only tentative dates) but as you can see we are busy- We leave the 4th of May and Oscar is with us until May 3rd... so it will be a quick "get out of Dodge" style getaway.a blog about my semi-free-life after 30+ years of law (travel, food, theater, and an occasional rant)
Sunday, November 10, 2024
visits continue
daily life
Phil has a cold (likely from airport land) it came on three days ago and he arrived seven days ago. He wanted comforting warm food. So we picked rice dishes. We had been to Mayo once before and liked it. The service is exemplary and the food excellent. I chose the arroz seco of the day (iberico) and he chose an arroz meloso with seafood. (It was almost the "soup" he was looking for) We started with mussels (tiny and tender) and an outstanding tuna tartare of red tuna (blue fin) - around here that comes from Cádiz. We had two unusual desserts. His was called textures of chocolate and mine was called fried milk. Both were very good. I had left my phone at home so no new "walk home" photos but Phil let me borrow his for the meal photos.
Then we got a notice from our lawyer that our empadronamiento was still showing as incomplete with the digital certificate. So we had to go to the city offices in Triana to find out what the delay was. Apparently they did not like the insurance and cable and cell phone bills. They demanded water, gas, or light copies with the exact apartment number on them. Luckily I had copies of the bills from our landlord in my emails and could get them printed at a copy shop only ten minutes walk away. So fingers crossed that we have accomplished this task.
Friday morning I heard from Lori Callahan that she and David would be making it to Sevilla! Friends always pick up where they left off no matter how many decades have passed. So I saw Lori Callahan & David Taylor (friends from Sydney Australia) today in Sevilla as they were "cruising by". Their ship docked in Càdiz and they were able to get to Sevilla to have coffee with me near the cathedral. A few hours to catch up and remind ourselves how easy and natural friendship can be.




























































